Celebrating Your First Post-Divorce Father's DayJune 18 marks the annual celebration of Father’s Day in the U.S. While it is usually a time for fathers and their children to bond, a newly divorced father may experience the holiday differently. Depending on the parenting time arrangement, his children may be unavailable to visit him that day. If he does get to spend the day with them, he may not know how to celebrate. Past Father’s Day traditions may have relied on the mother’s involvement. Divorced fathers need to take an active role in creating a positive Father’s Day experience for them and their children.

Save the Date

You should talk to your former wife about your desire to spend Father’s Day with your children, especially if it would require altering your parenting time schedule. Parenting time agreements are legally binding, but parents can make minor adjustments without needing court approval. Hopefully, your former wife will appreciate the day’s importance to you and your children. However, you can also help with scheduling by being flexible:

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Changing a Child's Name After DivorceWhen women divorce, they often revert to their maiden name if they took their husband’s surname during the marriage. The process in Illinois is relatively straight-forward. A woman can:

  • Add a provision in her divorce settlement that allows her to take back her maiden name;
  • Use the settlement documents to obtain a new social security card and driver’s license; and
  • Present her new identification cards when updating other documents and accounts in her name.

If a woman has primary allocation of parental responsibilities, she may also want to change her children’s last names to her maiden name. However, the mother must receive court approval, and a request to legally change a child’s last name may face heavy scrutiny.

Process

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Controlling Your Finances After DivorceGetting a divorce can lift the emotional burden of being in a stressful marriage. However, single life has its own stresses, not the least of which is the financial adjustment. Your household income may be decreased, or you may be responsible for monthly support payments to your former spouse. Expenses you once shared with your spouse are now your individual responsibility. It can be a harsh adjustment if your former spouse was in charge of keeping track of your finances. You can take steps during and after your divorce to help yourself deal with your new financial independence.

Divorce Settlement

When negotiating the terms of your divorce, support payments and the division of property can give you some financial security. Child and spousal support, in particular, can benefit you for years:

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More Millennials Getting Prenuptial AgreementsA recent American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers survey claims that a growing number of millennials are creating prenuptial agreements before getting married. According to the survey, 51 percent of attorneys are seeing an increase in premarital agreements by millennials, who are generally defined as people born in the 1980s and 1990s. There are numerous ways that a prenuptial agreement can benefit couples during a potential divorce, including:

Prenuptial agreements have grown more popular for couples of all ages in recent years, but researchers are particularly interested by the increase among younger couples. There are several possible reasons why millennials are embracing prenuptial agreements.

Delayed Marriage

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Staying Together in an Unhappy MarriageConventional wisdom says that couples divorce because they are unhappy in their marriages. However, many couples will stay married, even though they are obviously miserable together. Parents may consider staying together a selfless action for the benefit of their children, but getting a divorce does not mean the parents are selfish. This reasoning also does not explain why a childless couple would remain in a bad marriage. Psychologists have theories on why unhappy couples stay together that are connected to the expectations of marriage.

Interdependence

Many people get married with hopes of love and emotional fulfillment, but marriage is also an institution of mutual benefit. Psychologists who follow the theory of interdependence believe that:

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