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How to Know If You Need a Divorce CoachMany people approach their divorce by hiring not just a divorce lawyer but a divorce team, which could include a divorce coach. Divorce coaching is a fairly new profession that works with people on the personal side of dealing with divorce. This allows the divorce attorney to more efficiently focus their efforts toward the technical side of divorce. You may wonder whether you need a divorce coach for your divorce. The truth is that a divorce coach can benefit anyone, but we understand that many divorcees are concerned about the cost of hiring additional professionals for their divorce. Here are three signs that you may need to hire a divorce coach:

  1. You Are Struggling to Adjust to Divorced Life: Getting divorced will change most aspects of your personal life and add new responsibilities. You are now solely in charge of your household and your children when they are living with you. You may also be living on a tighter budget and need to adjust your expenditures. It can be difficult to balance these responsibilities with your professional life and your ongoing divorce case. A divorce coach will teach you ways that you can stay organized during and after the divorce process.
  2. You Do Not Know Your Post-Divorce Goals or How to Reach Them: The divorce process is most successful when you have a plan, but how do you create that plan? A divorce coach will work with you to identify your goals and then create a plan for how you will achieve those goals. For instance, one of your goals following divorce may be to start a new career. You must consider whether you will need to go back to school and how your divorce agreement could help you pay for it.
  3. You Are Feeling Discouraged About Your Divorce: It is common to feel doubts about yourself and your divorce with all of the uncertainty that you face. Sometimes, what you need the most is the reassuring voice of someone who understands what you are experiencing. A divorce coach has seen numerous cases and may have gone through a divorce themselves. Part of their responsibility is to encourage you throughout the process and keep you focused on your goals.

Contact a Kane County Divorce Lawyer

When choosing a divorce coach, it is important to find someone who is trained in the profession and works well as part of a team. At Goostree Law Group, we have a divorce coach on staff who is ready to work with you from the start of the process. Schedule a free consultation with a St. Charles, Illinois, divorce attorney by calling 630-584-4800.


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How to Set Goals Before You DivorceIt is not enough to wait until after your divorce is over to decide on your post-divorce goals. You should already know what your primary goals are before you start the divorce process so that you can negotiate your divorce with those goals in mind. Once the court has approved your divorce agreement, it will be difficult to modify it if you realize that you missed an opportunity for your agreement to help you achieve a goal. A skilled divorce attorney and a divorce coach can help you identify your divorce goals and plan for how you will achieve them.

Actionable Goals

Most people have a vague idea about what they want from their divorce, but you will be most successful during your divorce if you have specific and quantifiable goals. Saying that you want a “fair share” or a “reasonable agreement” does not tell you how to recognize whether you are achieving your goals. It is more helpful to say that you want:

  • Specific properties from your marriage
  • A percentage of your marital assets
  • A number of hours with your children each week

You can most accurately quantify your divorce goals by consulting with your divorce lawyer and figuring out what you need.

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