While a lot of people are aware of the most common topics that generally need to be divided up in a divorce - child custody; alimony/spousal support; division of property, assets, and debts - there are some divorce issues that people are less aware of. You might be surprised to know, for example, that what happens to a family pet in divorce is an entire topic of its own.

Some people might consider pets property since they are animals and not humans. But in many cases, families consider their pet a member of the family. This can make it harder to consider a pet an item that needs to be distributed. If you are considering divorce but find yourself worried it could mean the end of your relationship with your beloved pet, an experienced Kane County, IL divorce lawyer can help you navigate the process and advocate for your rights and interests.

How Do We Decide Who Gets Our Pet if We Both Love Her?

When a couple gets divorced, it can be extremely complicated trying to decide where their shared pet will live. For the courts to be able to decide this, both spouses will need to gather and present evidence that supports their claims. In this way, decisions about a pet are no different from decisions about any other aspect of divorce. 

While the concept of divorce is something most people are familiar with, the actual steps taken to make a divorce happen are not generally common knowledge. If you have never been through divorce proceedings yourself, it would be unusual for you to know what needs to be done. If you find yourself considering divorce and you do not know where to begin, an experienced Kane County, IL, divorce lawyer can explain to you all the steps that need to be taken and what all the terms mean so that you can move forward with knowledge and confidence.

Filing for Divorce

When a couple, or either spouse, wishes to get divorced, the first thing that needs to happen is that someone needs to go to court to file for divorce. Whoever does this is referred to as the petitioner, and the other spouse is referred to as the respondent. The petitioner needs to go to a court where they live. If they do not live with their spouse, they can also choose to file for divorce in a court where their spouse lives.

As the petitioner, you will need to pay a filing fee. The fee varies from county to county. However, fee waivers are available if you cannot afford to pay it.

Most people might think they have a basic understanding of what is involved in a divorce, but the vast majority are not familiar with what the most common divorce-related child custody terms mean. In general, if you have never experienced something yourself, you will be less familiar with it. The same goes for divorce and child custody matters. If you have never had a reason to gain an understanding of all the important factors in a divorce settlement where children are involved, the chances are you might lack some understanding of what all the terms mean. If you are a parent considering divorce for the first time and are not sure what all the terms mean, a Kane County, IL child custody lawyer can answer all your questions and help you represent your best interests with the knowledge and confidence you need.

Knowledge Is Power

It is safe to assume that newly engaged couples setting out to get married are not typically thinking about how they would split their assets in the event of a hypothetical divorce. Even so, prenuptial agreements and even postnuptial agreements are a way for married couples to plan for something they hope will never happen. When you are young and healthy, you do not necessarily want to think about your eventual death. Nevertheless, many people draw up a will years before it would be relevant just to help make future planning that much easier. However, there is no parallel document regarding child custody. Not only would it be unusual for new parents of a newborn baby to try to think about how they would arrange child care in the event of a hypothetical divorce, but no document or agreement currently exists in US law for parents to plan how they would raise their shared children in such a case. 

That might help explain why some common child custody terms are foreign to people who have never been divorced before. That is why we want to offer you a glossary of terms that are important to understand before you set out on your divorce journey.

Typically speaking, a divorce is not a simple process for anyone. Even if you and your spouse agree rationally on all the issues involved, there can be an emotional component. Once, you were committed to each other and now you are figuring out how to separate your lives. In addition to the emotional issues, there can be financial implications. In some divorce settlements, people can be responsible for covering any debt their ex incurred during their marriage. This can include education fees, investments they made, or payment plans that have not been completed. If you are considering divorce but are concerned about what will happen with your ex’s debt, an experienced Kane County divorce lawyer can answer your questions and explain any responsibilities you may have.

How Does the State of Illinois Rule on Distribution of Assets and Debts in Divorce?

There are two main methods used for distributing a couple’s marital assets and debts: equal and equitable. The method used in your divorce is determined by the state you are in. The state of Illinois follows an equitable distribution method. Rather than splitting the value of all assets down the middle and giving each spouse an equal share, an equitable division would dictate that several factors need to be taken into account:

• If one spouse earned the majority of income but the other spouse took on the majority of household responsibilities, thus allowing the first spouse the freedom to spend more time at work earning that money, this will be taken into consideration.

Every divorce is unique. Some couples can settle their separation amicably, through an uncontested divorce. Other couples might have such powerful animosity that they may go through what is called a high-conflict divorce. Some couples will settle their divorce in court, while others will do so through mediation. Regardless of the different ways a divorce could be settled, the actual aspects of life that need to be decided on in the divorce settlement are generally similar. If you are considering divorce, an experienced Kane County, IL, divorce attorney can explain what you can reasonably expect your divorce settlement to include and begin working on a plan to protect your best interests.

What Issues Are Covered in a Divorce Settlement?

A divorce can take time to be settled because the couple needs to figure out how all the parts of their life that were bound together in marriage will now be divided up. A typical divorce settlement will include the following aspects:

• Whatever was included in any prenuptial or postnuptial agreement
• An agreement for division of assets, including any savings, debts, and retirement plans
• Spousal support, otherwise known as alimony

If the couple has children, their divorce settlement will also include: