In Illinois, both parents have a legal responsibility to provide financial support to a child. The parent with the greater amount of parenting time, or time spent with the child, is the parent who receives child support. The parent with less parenting time is responsible for making child support payments. Child support payors or "obligors" may be men or women. However, statistics show that about 85 percent of the people who pay child support are men. 

Many people have questions about how and when a father is required to pay child support. For example, does a father have to pay child support if he never sees his child? Can a father surrender his parental rights? Can a father avoid paying child support by refusing to sign the birth certificate? 

Parentage and Paternity in Illinois

In order to understand how child support works, it is important to first understand the concept of "parentage." Parentage is defined as the legal relationship between a child and his or her parents. Once parentage is established, parents have certain rights and responsibilities towards their child. Parentage involving fathers is called paternity. 

Unfortunately, life is unpredictable and rarely works out according to plan. If you are pregnant and considering divorce, you probably never expected to be in this position. You may be unsure of whether divorce is the right option or even possible in this situation.

There is no one-size-fits-all answer to this question, as every pregnancy and divorce is unique. However, it is generally possible to get divorced while pregnant in Illinois. Whether or not it is the best option for you, however, depends on your individual circumstances.

Divorce Requirements in Illinois

There is no law preventing a spouse from getting divorced while pregnant. If you or your spouse is currently expecting, you will need to meet the same divorce requirements as any other couple. In Illinois, there is only one "ground" or legal justification for divorce: irreconcilable differences. If both spouses agree that there are irreconcilable differences and the marriage is unsalvagable, there is no mandatory waiting period before they can divorce. If one of the spouses disagrees that there are irreconcilable differences, the spouses can live separately for six months to meet the "irreconcilable differences" standard and proceed with the divorce. Furthermore, at least one spouse must have lived in Illinois for at least 90 days for the couple to qualify for a divorce.

The term "divorce coach" is one that few are familiar with. The word "coach" is usually used in connection with sports teams or mentorship. You will not find a divorce coach wearing a whistle or explaining football plays. However, divorce coaches do fulfill a similar role as sports coaches. A divorce coach helps a divorcing spouse navigate their divorce from start to finish, providing the emotional and practical support the spouse needs during this difficult time.

What Does a Divorce Coach Do?

Divorce is one of the most stressful experiences a person can go through. A divorce coach can do many things, but their main goal is to help a divorcing spouse cope with the emotional aspects of divorce. A divorce coach:

• Helps the spouse identify and process their feelings

Originally published: May 23, 2014 ---- Updated: September 12, 2022

The way Illinois describes child custody and visitation has changed in recent years. A parent's power to make major decisions about his or her child's upbringing is called "parental responsibilities." The time a parent spends caring for his or her child is "parenting time." Illinois courts encourage parents to work out the allocation of parental responsibilities and parenting time in a written agreement, but if the parents cannot agree, the court will make a decision.

If the parents have a "shared parenting" arrangement, each parent has the child at least 40 percent of the time. Child support calculations reflect the relatively equal amount of parenting time in shared parenting arrangements.

Adoption can be а complex process with mаny different steps аnd requirements. If you are interested in adding a child into your family through adoption, you have many options for doing so in the state of Illinois. 

One of the first decisions you will need to make is whether to pursue an agency adoption or independent adoption. During an independent adoption or private adoption,  hopeful adoptive parents find a birth mother who is willing to place her child for adoption. During an agency adoption, hopeful adoptive parents work with a state-licensed child welfare agency. Each type of adoption has its own advantages and disadvantages that you should consider before making your decision.

Adoption Through an Illinois Adoption Agency

Birth parents who recognize that they cannot care for their children may relinquish their parental rights to an adoption agency. This allows another family to adopt the child. In Illinois, agencies providing adoption services must be licensed by the Department of Children and Family Services.