Posted on January 05, 2023 in Child Support

College is notorious for being exorbitantly expensive; even if a child attends an in-state school, they could be paying tens of thousands of dollars a year to earn a degree in a field that may or may not have good prospects for future financial success.

Many parents, especially those who are divorced and who do not share values and priorities, are torn over whether the cost of sending a child to college is ultimately worth it. While parents who are still married cannot be compelled to pay for an adult child’s college education, many parents who are divorced may be surprised to learn than they can be. If you have a child approaching college age and you are wondering about your child support obligations regarding their university tuition, read on and then contact an Illinois adult child support attorney for advice in your specific case.

Parents Can be Ordered to Pay for a Child’s College Degree in Illinois

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 Posted on December 29, 2022 in Divorce

Divorce is rarely simple or pleasant, but certain types of personalities tend to make the divorce process much more hostile. This can include personality disorders like Borderline Personality Disorder, paranoid schizophrenia and other mental illnesses, and even people who, while having no diagnosable issue, are just plain cruel or vindictive.

Yet the divorce must go forward and for parents of young children, this means seeking a resolution to complex issues of parental responsibilities and parenting time. It can feel impossible to do this, but eventually, every divorce is concluded and every set of co-parents finds or is given a parenting agreement and you will get through yours, too.

Let Your Lawyer Protect You

While the divorce is ongoing, it is important to let your attorney manage issues with your spouse by communicating with your spouse’s attorney. If at all possible, avoid speaking with your spouse. You can request an interim parenting plan that dictates how parenting time will be shared and how children will be moved between households; doing so may be the best way to protect yourself and your child. If you must communicate with your spouse, do so only in writing so you can document any abuse or hostility. Depending on the levels of abuse, you may need to seek an Order of Protection that prohibits your spouse from contacting you or your child altogether. Each case is unique and your attorney can help you decide the best path forward.

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 Posted on December 27, 2022 in Family Law

After parents of minor children get divorced or break up, they need to formalize several different categories of arrangements that will determine how the co-parenting process will work. This can involve a lot of frustration and negotiation as parents, who are often separating precisely because they have fundamental differences in values and judgment, struggle to reach an agreement about what is best for their children.

One of the most common areas of conflict has to do with a child’s education. Where should the child go to school? Should both parents be expected to ensure a child’s homework gets done and turned in? What if one parent wants a private or parochial education for their child and the other does not? These are all important questions that need to be answered in a parenting plan, which will be approved by a judge and enforced by Illinois family law courts.

How Do Co-Parents Make Decisions About a Child’s Education?

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 Posted on December 23, 2022 in Divorce

Many people put off initiating divorce because they worry about the impact divorce and living alone afterward could have on their finances. This makes sense - after all, life is rarely less expensive when you are managing a home on a single income. But staying in an unhappy or abusive marriage is often untenable, even when finances are a compelling factor in the decision-making process. If you are considering divorce and are wondering how the asset division process could impact your financial portfolio, especially your hard-earned retirement, contact an Illinois divorce attorney.

What Happens to Retirement Accounts in Divorce? 

Retirement accounts are treated like any other part of the marital estate in a divorce. Illinois law requires marital assets to be divided fairly, although not necessarily equally, and this is true for retirement accounts as well. If you earned any portion of your retirement account before getting married, it is important to determine how much of the overall value of the account is made up of pre-marital funds. These are your personal property and will likely belong to you after the divorce, regardless of what happens with the remainder of the value of the account.

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 Posted on December 22, 2022 in Divorce

In times past, people had to prove fault when they wanted to get divorced. This meant bringing evidence before the court that their spouse was abusive, cruel, neglectful, or had abandoned the family. Now, however, thanks to an updated family law code, the only “grounds” for divorce in Illinois is irreconcilable differences, meaning that the relationship has broken down and does not stand a chance of recovery.

On a theoretical level, at least, most people would agree that infidelity is a good enough reason to end a marriage. When it actually happens, however, people often feel more torn; is one instance of infidelity enough to end a marriage, especially one that has gone on for many years, involves young children, and is generally happy? What about ongoing infidelity? While only you can answer this question, knowing a little about how cheating can impact divorce proceedings in Illinois may help you make the decision about divorce for yourself.

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 Posted on December 20, 2022 in Divorce

Very few things in life are as challenging as managing a pregnancy. In addition to morning sickness, mobility difficulties, and the chronic discomfort of being able to smell everything around you in acute detail, a crumbling marital relationship can add a burden that feels too much to bear. Unfortunately, many women in Illinois find themselves in a situation where they urgently want or need to leave their relationship, despite being pregnant. If you are in this situation and are considering divorce, it is important to understand your options.

Do I Need to Wait Before Filing for Divorce if I Am Pregnant? 

Illinois does not prevent a divorce from moving forward simply because a woman is pregnant. However, it is important to know that you will be expected to create a parenting plan with your soon-to-be ex that delineates how you and your ex will share decision-making responsibilities and parenting time (visitation). Sometimes, you will need to return to court to address these issues after your child is born. This is especially true if there is a question as to the child’s paternity.

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 Posted on December 16, 2022 in Divorce

The divorce rate in Illinois and across the nation is continuing to drop, and couples who do get divorced are generally doing so more deliberately than past generations. Because many Millennials and Gen Zers grew up watching their parents fight their way through miserable divorces and custody battles, these generations have shifted their focus to finding a more peaceful divorce process whenever possible.

An uncontested divorce is one way that couples who want to get divorced can reach an agreement on important issues like property division, spousal support, and a parenting plan. However, even if you are sure you and your spouse agree on everything, it is important to work with an attorney to make sure your proposed agreement is both fair and within the bounds of the law.

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 Posted on December 14, 2022 in Divorce

When a couple decides to get divorced, both spouses usually agree that the relationship has come to an end and participate in the divorce process together. Sometimes, however, one spouse opposes the divorce and refuses to cooperate. Other times, a spouse is missing and cannot be located. In these cases, the partner who wants to file for divorce may be desperate to get out of an abusive, unhappy, or defunct relationship but may not be sure where to begin. Fortunately, something called a default divorce judgment is available in Illinois that may be useful to people to find themselves in these situations.

An Uncooperative Spouse

In times past, spouses could prevent the finalization of a divorce simply by not participating in the divorce process or by contesting the other spouse’s alleged version of events. This left many people trapped in unhappy or abusive marriages. Now, when one spouse files for divorce, the other spouse has only 30 days to file a response (except in certain cases, such as with deployed military spouses). If a spouse decides not to respond in time, the spouse who initially filed for divorce can petition for a default divorce and the proceedings will move forward without the participation of the other spouse.

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 Posted on December 09, 2022 in Family Law

In 2014, Gwyneth Paltrow and Chris Martin announced they were getting divorced using a very particular phrase: “Conscious uncoupling.” The couple faced widespread public derision over the term, which was seen as snooty and foolish. However, in the years that have followed, the public at large has begun to recognize the values embedded in the idea of a conscious uncoupling: That parents of minor children, even if they decide to end their marriage, can still be committed to divorcing carefully and co-parenting in a way that puts their children’s interests first.

One strategy under Illinois law that allows parents to do exactly that is a concept known as the “right of first refusal.” This idea, while not for everyone, can allow two ex-partners to continue co-parenting peacefully while maximizing the amount of time that each parent gets to spend with their child. To learn more, read on and then contact a team of Illinois divorce attorneys who are committed to helping you get peacefully divorced while protecting your child’s future.

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 Posted on December 06, 2022 in Family Law

While prenuptial agreements can be a wonderful source of constructive conversations before a marriage and a protective measure for both spouses before divorce, not everybody wants to write and sign a prenup. While there are good reasons for both having and not having a prenup, everybody feels differently about these legally-binding contracts, and the feeling that a prenup constrains a marriage in a way that feels overly financial or transactional is very common.

Furthermore, a prenuptial agreement is often not simply the product of an engaged couple. The parents of one or both spouses may encourage the couple to sign a prenup, and some parents insist that a prenup be signed before doing important things like helping the couple pay for their wedding. Again, while the parental desire to have a prenup to protect an engaged child is understandable, the kind of pressure parents put on a couple may actually backfire by invalidating the agreement. To learn how a prenuptial agreement could be invalidated in Illinois, read on.

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