Posted on September 28, 2023 in Child Support

When parents are going through a divorce, one of the many issues that need to be worked out in the divorce settlement is child support. Married parents are free to manage their family finances in private. Once they get divorced, however, the court has the authority to mandate which parent needs to pay what amount and when.

When there is a plan in place for child support payments, both parents can arrange their finances around this. They know how much money they can expect to pay or receive from the other and how regularly. If one parent decides to simply stop paying, it can leave the other parent scrambling to cover costs related to their child. If you are a divorced parent and your ex has stopped making their child support payments, you should speak with a Kane County, IL divorce lawyer to figure out how best to proceed.

How Can I Get My Ex to Pay Child Support Again?

If your ex has stopped making their child support payments, it can put you in a stressful and uncomfortable situation. You expect to receive that money, and that is how you planned to finance what your child needed that month. While you may find yourself under financial pressure and you may feel frustrated or angry toward your ex, keep in mind that there are ways to resolve this.

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 Posted on September 27, 2023 in Uncategorized

You have decided that divorce is the right step for you, but how should you move forward now? Divorce does not have to be terrible, and in fact, many people can feel an enormous sense of relief once it is over. However, if you want a desirable outcome in your divorce settlement, coming prepared is the best thing you do. A DuPage County, IL divorce attorney can explain all the aspects of a divorce to help you prepare as best you can.

Where Do I Even Begin?

The first thing you should do if you are convinced that divorce is in your future is to find a lawyer to represent you and your best interests. You should seek a law firm that has experience dealing with divorce. If there are any special circumstances about your divorce - for example, if you have young children, if this will be a high-asset divorce, if you and your spouse co-own a business - you will want to make sure the law firm you chose has dealt with similar cases in the past.

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 Posted on September 21, 2023 in Divorce

People used to assume that when a couple got divorced, most parental responsibilities would be granted to the mother. While the law varies by state, that is no longer the assumption. Today, these arrangements are based on many factors. If you are a father who is concerned that your spouse could get all or most parental responsibilities in a divorce settlement, an experienced Kane County, IL divorce lawyer can explain the process to you.

Parental Distribution of Responsibilities Has Changed over Time

Not so long ago, American society held some generally accepted views on gender roles in parenting. Fathers were expected to be the main breadwinners, going off to work all day to earn the money that the family needed. They were not generally as involved as their wives in raising their children, because they were busy making a living. It was also assumed that mothers would handle the child-rearing and household responsibilities. They were not expected to contribute to the family budget because they were busy dealing with the family’s non-financial needs.

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 Posted on September 19, 2023 in Divorce

Infidelity in marriage is becoming increasingly common. In some states across America, cheating could be enough for a court to grant the other spouse full custody and other beneficial terms in a divorce. In the State of Illinois, which is considered a "no-fault" state, neither spouse is considered responsible for a marriage breaking apart and both need to share parental responsibilities regardless of why they are splitting up.

You may have cheated on your spouse, but that has nothing to do with how you are as a parent. If you are a parent thinking about divorce in the State of Illinois and you had an affair, a DuPage County, IL divorce lawyer can help you understand the process and advocate on your behalf.

What Is a No-Fault Divorce State?

In the past, people needed to prove to the courts why they deserved to be granted a divorce. They needed to provide the court with their "grounds for divorce." Grounds generally included abuse, infidelity, or abandonment. But in 2016, the State of Illinois decided that from then on, couples no longer need to present the grounds for their divorce. Neither spouse needs to worry that their reputation will be ruined in divorce court.

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 Posted on September 15, 2023 in Divorce

Often, when we think about parents going through a divorce, we imagine the couple trying to figure out how they will split custody, who will take the children to soccer practice or ballet class, and where the children will spend their holidays.

However, parents can decide to get a divorce at any stage in their life, and this can happen when a family has older children as well. A question that often comes up in Illinois divorce is how the child’s college education will be paid for if the parents are no longer acting as a unit. College expenses are constantly on the rise, which is why this can be a very important issue to work out during divorce proceedings. An experienced Kane County, IL divorce lawyer can help guide you through the process.

My Spouse and I Cannot Agree on Anything. How Will We Work Together to Pay For Our Child’s Degree?

Child support used to be a payment that divorced parents took into consideration until their children turned 18 years old. Nowadays, that is not always the case. Illinois judges have been increasingly requiring divorcing parents to form a plan for financing their children’s college education if they have the financial ability to do so.

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 Posted on September 15, 2023 in Divorce

All divorces taking place in the State of Illinois need to meet the state’s residency requirements. That means that if you want to file for divorce, you need to have lived in Illinois for at least 90 days. The county where you file for divorce is the county in which your divorce will be handled, and the specific county where your case is handled is called the "venue." 

There are certain circumstances in which you may want to settle your divorce in a different county. If you feel that a change of venue would serve your interests, a DuPage County, IL divorce attorney will be able to clear up some confusion around the significance of where your divorce is handled, and guide you through the process of transferring it to a different county.

Does Venue Matter in an Illinois Divorce?

When someone files for divorce, their case will be handled in the county where they filed, which is generally where they or their spouse reside. Even if the spouses are living in separate counties at the time of filing, the divorce gets assigned to the county in which it was filed. All Illinois family courts follow the same state laws, but some counties may handle them slightly differently. The specific county where your divorce is finalized might affect the outcome.

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 Posted on September 12, 2023 in Child Support

One thing that is certain in life is that nothing is certain. You can plan something based on how your life is now, and in five or ten years from now, you might find that your life is completely different. When you got married, you probably did not picture yourself one day getting a divorce. When you were in the middle of settling your divorce, you probably could not imagine how your life would look today.

Your child support agreement was most likely made based on your income back then. This agreement may no longer suit you if you have recently been laid off from work. Fortunately, your monthly payments could be modified under certain circumstances like loss of a job. If you have lost your job and have questions about your child support payments, a Kane County, IL child support attorney may be able to clear up a lot of confusion.

Does the State of Illinois Allow Modifications to Child Support Payments?

According to Illinois State Law, modifications can be made to child support payments. The law lists certain circumstances under which the child support arrangement can be changed. One of the circumstances is if either parent’s income goes through some unexpected change, for example, if they have lost their job or gotten demoted.

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 Posted on September 12, 2023 in Divorce

Social media networks have become an important part of life. People use them to connect with friends, share personal milestones, network professionally, date, collaborate, and countless other reasons. But whatever you post online is out there for all the world to see. Your social media posts could impact your divorce. A DuPage County, IL attorney can explain how, and whether there is anything you should be doing differently.

How Can Social Media Usage Affect Divorce?

In a divorce proceeding, lawyers may try to get the settlement their clients want by trying to show the other spouse as unfit to care for their children or wealthy enough not to need alimony. Before social media was a popular tool, it was much harder to get evidence of such claims. Now that it is common to post pictures and comments on several social media platforms, people have access to so much personal information about others.

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 Posted on September 07, 2023 in Divorce

When a married couple has children, they might find it difficult to juggle their work schedules and their household obligations. It can be tricky figuring out how to drop your children off at school, pick them up in the afternoon, and manage to get all your work done in between.

Some spouses might decide that one of them will take on more of the family’s financial responsibilities, while the other will handle more of the family’s other needs. This means that one parent can commit themselves to working hard and moving up in their career, or getting professional or educational training, while the other parent will become a “stay-at-home” parent, making sure the household keeps running. When it comes to getting a divorce, this can create some trouble, but an Illinois family law attorney can help.

Why Would Someone Choose to Be a Stay-At-Home Parent?

When one person is in charge of the drop-offs, pick-ups, cooking, cleaning, laundry, grocery shopping, making sure kids get to all their appointments and after-school activities, and countless other household tasks, it can be so time-consuming that they simply cannot hold down a typical job. On the other hand, when all of those important tasks are taken care of by someone else, it is much easier for the working parent to focus on their job.

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 Posted on August 29, 2023 in Family Law

Under Illinois divorce and family law statutes, when one parent seeks court approval to relocate a substantial distance away with a child after the divorce, the current custody order may need to be modified if the potential long-distance move could negatively impact your child’s interests.

Strict Formal Notification Requirements Apply

Illinois Compiled Statutes require the parent desiring to relocate provide formal advance written notice to the other parent of the intent to move with the child. This notice must be given at least 60 days prior to the anticipated relocation date. Serving advance notice gives the non-relocating parent time to file an objection and initiate child custody modification proceedings before the relocation occurs.

The Court Assesses Factors Related to the Child’s Best Interests

If the non-relocating parent formally objects to the proposed out-of-state move and files a petition to prevent it, the Illinois family law judge will carefully examine and weigh a variety of statutory factors to determine whether uprooting the child to a new distant location is truly in the overall best interests of the child. Factors examined include the likelihood of impacting the child’s emotional, physical, and mental well-being, the reasons for the relocation, logistics of transportation for parenting time, the child’s opinion, and disruption to current educational programs and community ties.

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